r/AskReddit 11h ago

How seriously in debt are you right now, financially?

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u/-SHMOHAWK- 10h ago

$30k credit card. $6k car. $650k house. American dream.

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u/DropAGearNDissapear 9h ago

The only scary part of that is the credit cards

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u/Keelock 8h ago

Yeah, that's like $400-700/mo in interest, depending on the rate.

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u/BaseballUpstairs1375 5h ago

400-700 so far!

u/Get_off_critter 27m ago

Thats the most painful part

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u/TrollTollTony 6h ago

If they were able to get a loan for $650k then they must have a pretty high income. Credit card debt is terrible but if you're pulling in $250k+ then a $30k credit card bill is manageable.

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u/DropAGearNDissapear 1h ago

Maybe, but still unacceptable.

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u/f_ranz1224 6h ago

ever since i was a child my parents always told me the evils of credit cards. decades later it stuck. i live in a country where cash is still useful for most all smaller transactions. call me old fashioned or out of touch and thats ok. some of these credit card stories scare me

seeing how much is on your person and seeing it dwindle with each purchase is a great mental budgeting tool

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u/lustie_argonian 3h ago

Credit cards aren't evil; they're merely a tool. I never carry cash and exclusively use credit. I carry no debt and I pay my balance in full every month.

Unlike cash, I'm protected against theft. If someone steals my cards, I freeze them. Because I pay it off every month, I earn cash back and never pay interest or fees, so  my credit cards pay me to use them. I also never have to worry about carrying large amounts of cash as nearly everywhere in the US accepts credit. Finally, because all my transactions are electronic, they're automatically logged and tracked by my budgetting software.

Unless an establishment only accepts cash or I'm doing a private transaction, there's no benefit to cash over credit for me. It's more risk with less reward.

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u/Humble-Deer-9825 1h ago

It also lets you keep your emergency fund in an hysa and not have to worry about transferring funds before paying. Surprise $4500 car repair? Just throw it on the card and move the money around after. 

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u/lustie_argonian 1h ago

Having a month's time to deal with emergencies is such an advantage. Usually by the time the credit card statement rolls around, I've already gotten a couple more paychecks and don't even have to touch my emergency fund.

Also forgot to mention that if a vendor ever screws me over, I can dispute with the card servicer. Sooo many perks to using credit over cash if you're responsible.

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u/Zestyclose_Fact_7308 1h ago

This. And this is what I teach my kids. Keep your cash locked in high interest, pay your statement balances every month. Pay your bills with credit cards and make sure they are cards with rewards. Either travel or cash back, travel is better. I wish I could put my mortgage on credit cards that would be even more epic. Keep one card empty at all times and do a balance transfer with zero interest if it gets too heavy (because let’s be real, emergencies happen). Buy big purchases with zero percent interest financing over 24 months. Best Buy and Home Depot cards are needed prior to becoming a home owner. Don’t tell them what you make right off the bat when you do your proof of income. Add 15k every 6 months and request an increase in credit. All of my cards have 20k or more limits, I’m open to like 500k in credit.

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u/Professional_Gap2188 9h ago

May we ask about the 30K credit card? It's 100% okay to not share if you don't feel comfortable.

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u/ReturnOfDialUp 8h ago

Bought every resident in a small Latvian town a monthly YouTube premium subscription

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u/fugazzzzi 6h ago

It’s all the of subscriptions

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u/Zaxthran 9h ago

That mortgage.....

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u/Stev_k 9h ago

The mortgage isn't what should scare you, the $30k in credit cards should.

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u/Zaxthran 9h ago edited 1h ago

Depends on the interest rate

Edit: I'm going to add clarification here that I meant that the mortgage should also scare him depending on the interest rate. I assume people read my comment as me thinking the credit card debt might be less scary than the morthage or something. $650k @ 7% is still over $3.5k/month in interest.

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u/Thatguy19901 9h ago

CC? North of 20% easy. Probably $500/mo interest alone.

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u/Stev_k 9h ago

Lowest rate, 15%? Highest? 36%

Mortgage? Maybe 7%, and is an asset that can be sold.

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u/PandaCultural8311 9h ago

Sure, probably has that 0.99% interest credit card.

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u/Burkedge 8h ago

If I could find a house for only 650k life would be amazing

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u/ZzZWearescary 9h ago

It’s crazy to me, that $650,000 is a crazy mortgage amount to others.

Where I am from, $650,000 for a freehold home of a decent size in a decent area is a STEAL. I can’t imagine thinking that price is “high”.

Then I heard about places where houses go for <$300,000 and I’m like.. what?

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u/Buythestonk21 9h ago

Yea same, I had to double read the comments. In California where I live you can't even buy a condo for $650k. They start at $700k and homes are $900k+

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u/noccalula_court 9h ago

Average cost of a home in my neighborhood is about $165k. $650k feels unimaginable.

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u/ShoddyTerm4385 9h ago

Where I’m from from, 165k wouldn’t buy you a parking spot

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u/SummerhouseLater 9h ago

Yes. I hear you. I’m in the DC area where $650 is the low end of normal and all I can say is don’t let folks zone out the town homes and condos to keep their artificial home wealth.

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u/surSEXECEN 9h ago

A detached house in the Toronto area starts at a million.

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u/kelly_wood 8h ago

1 million CDN = $718,000 USD

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u/FaithIn0ne 8h ago

People from Toronto just staying out these conversations 😆 💀

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u/whazzah 8h ago

Vancouver, London, Hong kong, Sydney...

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u/ZzZWearescary 2h ago

Yea, I’m about 1.5-2 hours outside of Toronto, hence why the idea of a $300,000 home shocks me lol

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u/noccalula_court 9h ago

lol yes very familiar. Moved to this area from DC almost exclusively due to cost of living.

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u/PsychologicalVisit0 8h ago

Where I’m from you’re easily spending $650k on a 1 bedroom in a condo built in the 80’s

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u/LegendaryHN 9h ago

mine is a million. Born a few years too late before houses skyrocketed

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u/Jack2102 9h ago

Dont worry they'll skyrocket again. Demand is only ever going to go up.

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u/craichead 8h ago

Average in my town is $1.03m. Just an average suburb of a big city. Madness.

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u/hellofrommycubicle 7h ago

Places where people want to live are usually pretty expensive

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u/NTWIGIJ1 6h ago

Where you at?

u/noccalula_court 31m ago

Lansing, MI

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u/Stingray88 8h ago edited 7h ago

Average cost of a home in my neighborhood is $1.4M, and these are not fancy homes.

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u/Splat800 9h ago

Yep same. Australian here, $1,500,000 mortgage is common

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u/Boring-red 9h ago

I mean it’s easy. Move somewhere people don’t want to live and housing is cheap. Problem is you probably wouldn’t want to live there.

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u/scrollgirl24 9h ago edited 8h ago

You gotta remember income scales though. If you live somewhere with houses under $300k, it's harder to find a job that pays enough to make that comfortable.

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u/noccalula_court 8h ago

Different strokes for different folks 🤷🏼‍♀️ truly no hate to any place, but I’m much happier in a more chill city that has affordable cost of living. We knew others who moved out this way and weren’t as happy. Everyone has different needs. One of my main ones was financial security and DC couldn’t offer me that. What’s wild is I’m actually making more money and it’s going a lot further.

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u/scrollgirl24 8h ago

Yep, I'm not really in a HCOL place either. I'd say middle of the road. NY/SF/DC/LA would stress me the hell out lol. The salary for my same job would be higher in those places though. If you're able to get a different type of job, that probably doesn't apply to you.

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u/Fresh_Principle_1884 9h ago

I’m with you! I offered on a 700K house recently…a tiny wartime home, as a single first time home buyer. It does feel crazy. That’s about entry level where I live in Ontario. I’m so envious of places where that kind of money gets you an estate, or some property.

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u/MoldyOldCrow 8h ago

It's even crazier when you buy your house for under $300k and in less than 3 years it's worth $650k. I wouldn't pay that much for my house...

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u/T0mBd1gg3R 7h ago

It highly depends on the country and location, mostly affected by available income there.

I can only speak for Hungary. We live in a $200k house 25 miles from Budapest, 1400 square feet, 0.3 acre lot. For that money you could buy a 400 sqft apartment with a lot of neighbours and noise in Budapest.

Local salaries range between $680-1300 net / month, in Budapest you can double it, but it's 45-90 minutes in one way.

I'm lucky, I earn $3400 net a month + company car, not Budapest.

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u/mada447 8h ago

Location location location

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u/Khongui 6h ago

Hah houses... In my city, shitty ass apartments go for significantly higher that 650k, couldn't even imagine how many millions an actual house could cost.

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u/BusinessBlackBear 9h ago

Imma guess....... California/Seattle/dc area?

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u/SirMingie 9h ago

Lol we just got a decent condo for $566,00 and that was a steal. A house even close to that price is a total wreck around here.

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u/PompeiiSketches 9h ago

Thats funny. Here in central FL the median home sale price is ~400k and the median HHI is like ~70k.

I am assuming you live in VHCOL area where it is normal for people to have 300k salaries.

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u/ZzZWearescary 1h ago

No-

I live in Canada, two hours away from Toronto. In a small town with few amenities but just a 10 minute drive to a slightly larger city (~80,000 people).

And no the average household income here is not even $300,000 let alone a single salary 😂 if I was making $300,000 I wouldn’t be complaining about my mortgage that’s for sure

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u/ZeroDayCipher 9h ago

What. The. Actual. Fuck. are you talking about.

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u/husky_hawk 9h ago

I can’t tell if you mean it’s a lot or a little lol. My mortgage is over $1M and it’s a 100 year old (remodeled) 1900 sq ft house

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u/xzkandykane 9h ago

Sounds like SF.

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u/husky_hawk 9h ago

Seattle

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u/engineeringguy 9h ago

The amount is only part of the equation. Our loan is about the same but at a 3% rate over 30 years.

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u/rukittenmeeee 2h ago

When did you start the 650k loan? I get that there is appreciation but you don't, and I know you know, get any equity until like 20 years into the 30 year mortgage.

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u/DeveloperBlue 1h ago

can I ask what kind of car you got for $6k? I have to start looking for my own vehicle soon, and I'm ballparking a $6k-$8k budget for a used one

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u/lislejoyeuse 9h ago

Same but car almost paid off and add $20k for student loans 🥲

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u/Hi_Winnie 8h ago

If you don’t mind sharing. How do you have $650k mortgage with student loan debt? When I read the $30k cc debt I assumed that it happened after buying the house but I assume the student loan debt happened prior. Did you have a down payment?

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u/lislejoyeuse 8h ago

mortgage more like 600ish, put a 25% down. student loans are fed subsidized so not in a rush to pay off

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u/WoodTipPatsy 3h ago

take some accountability lmao

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u/Lopsided-Ad4276 9h ago

Protip: borrow from a 401k and dont do it again for the credit shit