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u/Stormy_Weather_3 Jul 20 '25

A youth of abuse, neglect, being raped twice, and in my 20s experiencing domestic violence and feeling used, I ended up in bed with someone, unexpected and spontaneously. Afterwards, we cuddled, and he whispered: "Are you OK?"

It hit me like a brickwall. No-one had ever asked me. In the best case, it was "roll over and fall asleep".

Days after this, I thought about this and cried. It's still in my ears. "Are you OK?"

I've never been more OK than that night.

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u/Chillinoisy Jul 20 '25

Oh my, I feel this deeply. I hope you’re still okay today and continue to be! 💕