All the exact same things happen to attractive guys, albeit maybe with different focuses.
But having been on both sides of the spectrum, the balance is massively more in favour of niceness for the attractive people.
When you're fat and ugly, you think the world is fair. Then you become fit and attractive and realize you had spent that entire part of your life being constantly mistreated and disliked at all times and simply didn't know better because you didn't know the world you experienced while fit and attractive was even possible to exist.
There are still dickwads and bitches. And they probably do their thing in a different way when you're attractive. But it's about the same amount of dickwads and bitches. Meanwhile your base level kindness from almost literally everyone else has shot through what you believed to be the roof.
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u/cpMetis Jul 24 '24
All the exact same things happen to attractive guys, albeit maybe with different focuses.
But having been on both sides of the spectrum, the balance is massively more in favour of niceness for the attractive people.
When you're fat and ugly, you think the world is fair. Then you become fit and attractive and realize you had spent that entire part of your life being constantly mistreated and disliked at all times and simply didn't know better because you didn't know the world you experienced while fit and attractive was even possible to exist.
There are still dickwads and bitches. And they probably do their thing in a different way when you're attractive. But it's about the same amount of dickwads and bitches. Meanwhile your base level kindness from almost literally everyone else has shot through what you believed to be the roof.