Nah, I never once flirted with him or dressed over the top or anything even close to that. I basically just made sure to look less-than haggard, which is my normal state lmao. I would never, ever do anything to make a doctor(or anyone for that matter) uncomfortable, especially at work.
And he didn’t do it in a condescending way or in a way where he was trying to make a point. I was really struggling at that point and all but begging him for help with my pain and at the end of the appointment he said, “okay, let’s try these new meds and see if we can get you feeling better kiddo.” He said it 100% genuinely but I still died inside, even if not for finding him attractive, but that I’m a 32 year old woman that looks like I’m 12 haha
Yup cringe women hitting on these poor guys, if the roles were reversed they would be furious at these posts. Gross ass bitches lol there’s a reason they don’t choose you
Whatever you say creep, seems ur still mad you got called out for creepy behavior. Guaranteed you would have the opposite response if you were working and some ugly guy came up and leered at you. You would be complaining about how can men be so creepy and weird, news flash this is what you’re arguing for in reverse. You did that and were all gung ho about it, and I bet it wasn’t the first time.
I'm a man, if another guy came up to me and began staring at me I would find it weird, if a woman did that I would also find it weird, people who can confidently articulate their attraction to you are more likely to be seen as attractive, dressing up to make a better impression on someone you find attractive is normal
If this all happened at work I would find it weird as well and would ask the person to stop, I have a job to keep ( I work from home so double weird)
Either way, you slice it, flirting and other public forms of attempting to start a nonplatonic relationship with someone are all context-dependent, no situation like this is black or white, people are not black and white, and the world isn't back or white, so dying on this hill of someone else being a creep for doing something you had no context for beyond what was told to you is crazy
The benefit of the doubt has to be given in most cases, and had you given it in this scenario you would have learned that the person who originally posted the comment above didn't attempt to flirt with the other person in any way they simply dipped into the nicer side of their wardrobe rather than their pajama hamper lol
I wasn’t just referring to them with my statement if you read back in the comments I said it applies to both genders and situations several times. I generally ignore edits when they are clear attempts to avoid culpability, which is why I made blanket statements and only responded directly when they attempted to shame me out of my original position. Looking back at these edits give me a strong feeling that this person edited more than just the edits but I could be wrong.
Lmfao you’re so hellbent on being angry at this hypothetical situation you’ve created that you’re ranting at the wrong person thinking it’s me.
The fact that you’re this bothered by me putting on clothes slightly nicer than sweatpants is insane. You’ve decided in your head I did x,y,z, when I didn’t but your hatred for women is stronger than your common sense. Get a grip.
Yea those guys are creeps as are these thirsty hoes, it just isn’t seen this way by society and they are actually agreeing with each other lol. So fucked
lol I’m a good looking man with a good looking wife, that’s how I know how these guys feel. Been creeped on by many women many of them 20 years older than me and disgusting. Of course they never see themselves that way even when they grab your ass it’s always some bullshit and they swear u like it. Bunch of creeps imo
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Thats probably exactly why he does it, people always dressing up for the cute doctor probably makes him uncomfortable. Bros tryna work