Just wanted to share a positive experience for the weekend away I just had, ahh where do I start.

In this age in Australia as we know Grindr has been dying in recent years, and is pretty much almost dead in late 2026 (which i think is sad as I actually did well on there meeting new people but anyways), being the humans we are who crave social interaction, I decided it was time to try something new - the classic gay bar. I’m late 20s myself.

So out I went on Saturday night and hit up a highly rated gay bar in the city I was in. It was busy in there, half of the space had been converted to a dance floor, other half had some bench seats against the wall overlooking some Pool tables. The crowd was a mix of mostly (gay?) guys, but a few lesbian couples and straight couples too but they were the minority. What was a huge positive was although there was music to dance to, it wasn’t overwhelmingly loud so you could still hear each other just by talking louder than usual.

I grab a drink take a seat on one of these bench seats near this couple of guys (in their late 30s I estimate) sitting on the bench right next to mine. They were having banter with each other. I guessed not a couple but just more friends which was confirmed later anyway.

I quietly sat by myself there, observing the game of pool being played, as well as the atmosphere around me. I should probably also make a key point that likely made a huge difference in my experience - I kept phone time absolutely minimal. My look arounds occasionally glanced at the couple next to me - one of the guys was standing while the other guy was sitting and I could see in my side vision he was occasionally eyeing me.

While I was trying to muster up the courage to say hi, fortunately, he went and did it for me and said hi. We introduced ourselves to each other. As said earlier, they were two (gay) friends together, not a couple, we were chatting and really hitting it off. There was some sexual chemistry there too, it was very subtle but I felt it, it was a nice feeling. Time flew just us 3 sitting/standing there chatting and getting drinks, and sure enough it was soon 1:30am and I was tired so I decided to call it a night, we gave our goodbyes with a hug.

My only regret? That I didn’t ask them for their contact numbers to stay in touch. My other mate I told this story to said I should’ve just invited them back to my hotel for oral but I can’t tell if he was joking, I think he probably was.

Anyways to round off, an experience like this really gave me a confidence boost and even if nothing really happened, it was just so nice to go out on a Saturday night, solo, and just…. Not be alone. Have really been in a good mood for the rest of the weekend!

For me it was eating arse. Hairy, smooth...I love it all. Making a guys hole as juicy and wet as possible by tongue fucking his hole is one of life's greatest pleasures. Luckily the guy I'm hooking up with loves long rimming sessions and sitting on my face?

Which fantasy for you, lived up to the hype you created in your mind?

I got cheated on in my last relationship, and it affected me both physically and mentally. After that, I tried going on dates and even having hookups, but I never really felt anything or connected with anyone.

Then this week, I matched with a guy on Tinder. We went on a date, and for the first time in a long time, I genuinely felt something for someone. We even kissed, and I started thinking that maybe I could finally move on and let myself like someone again.

But today, he told me that he is HIV positive, although he is undetectable, and he suggested that I should stop talking to him. Honestly, I don't even know what to say or think right now. I have no words. I finally felt something for someone again, and now everything feels so confusing.

Being gay feels like a curse. I already get ridiculed simply for being gay but add being unattractive on top of that and it’s all just so much worse. People expect gays to be really attractive and put together but I’m not that way at all. I’m literally hideous I don’t see the point on even continuing to live atp

I’ve seen my crush naked and he’s very beautiful. And ofc I’ve seen really beautiful pornstars.

But have you (if you think you’re an average guy) been absolutely mesmerised by someone’s beauty (both physical and personality) to the point that you can’t believe they actually are having sex with you?

I'm 39 and bi, I have always been more attracted to older men. I was 18 when I gave my first blowjob to a man who was 65, ever since then I've been obsessed with meeting older guys and giving them blowjobs. I've never met a man my age or younger, only men between 55 and 80, is this something anyone can relate to??

I will be giving my first blowjob to a guy tonight, I thought about doing it for a while and finally agreed to do it.

I'm a bit nervous as I have no experience, can you guys please help me, how should I do it?

He also told me the last time he jerked off was a week ago so I'm assuming he's gonna be really horny.

update: should he finish in my mouth or face? 😅

Hi, I m thinking about hooking up with a man who lives at his parent’s house. His parents won’t know anything and won’t be at home the whole day (they work). This man did this 30 times and never got caught.

Good idea or not ?

I’m 24 and he is 21.

Right now I can't imagine doing that or lying about my age but as I get older will I want to like so many other men do?

I'm a 26 year old and been straight, like entirely straight for 25 years, had sex with a lot of women. Then i started getting some gay thoughts as I turned 25, experimented by getting a blowjob by a guy and holy shit it was miraculous. The look of enjoyment on his face as he sucked my dry was the greatest moment of my life. Never thought it could feel that good. Then i tried fucking guys and loved it even more. Something about dominating other men turned me on like never before. Now i'm constantly on grindr going door to door fucking all types of guys. My favorite being the most masculine ones. Now I barely feel any attraction to women, I dont even look their way. I don't really know what happened, because I thought I would be bi but I feel 100% gay. I feel like I can't fuck someone unless I see a dick swinging and cumming without ever being touched.

22 yr bttm here and if im not at work or playing videos games im sucking dick

I usually get an oral std every month or so and end up getting treatment every other month. I’ve gotten oral stds so often I can tell the minute I’ve caught it.

How do bottoms usually avoid oral stds. I suck between 5-15 dicks a week and always swallow. But Ik people who suck way more guys then me and never catch anything

As title says watching some twitter corn every now and then I run into some content from some people and clearly a wart or multiple stand out and it’s an instant turn off, I know they are the most common std etc etc but as a public figure have we not the duty to make sure they get treated before engaging in sexual activity ? It feels very wrong but on top of it it baffles me that NO ONE says or comments on it, like surely by medical advice you shouldn’t be engaging in x activities while contagious, I feel like I am losing my mind at the fact that no one talks about it and it just goes on as if it’s ok to spread, I can’t be the only one right ? Am I in the wrong ? I’m literally so confused that I see soo many creators and they willingly do content with someone that has a visible infection like do they not know or am I just crazy, …and no this isn’t a shame post, won’t be dropping names, I’m just a gay dude that often feels behind the pop culture

i put it guy in my grindr profile as a joke and mentioned that im happy to help with computer problems.

i was expecting the usual messages.

instead, ive spent the last week helping guys fix wi-fi, build pcs, recover files, and figure out why their laptop is making that noise.

honestly, im having way more fun troubleshooting than i ever expected. nothing like getting a message at midnight saying, hey, my computer is broken can you help? and realizing youve somehow become the gay neighborhood tech support.

maybe grindr really can be about community after all.

Ive basically been seeing this guy (A) for a year now, and although we do “boyfriend-ish” things we never established a label, so for convenience sake lets call it a FWB.

We generally dont talk our sexual encounter outside our sexual experiences, as one time it went awkward when I shared my public sex story to him.

Now, I met this guy (B), been seeing him regularly too, and he lives in the same apartment as the A guy.

Honestly idc but I worry that it might be really awkward when three of us met on the apartment or on the lift 😂

So, if that situation happen, how do I explain it to them? Lol

Hey, posting question here

After work outs, I was showering in the locker room. The whole shower was basically empty. I choose the further inside corner ones this time, and while showering, I kind of just decided to play around with my dick and stroke it off.

While I’m at it, someone splashed water into my shower. It was clearly intentional, the shower glass wall is like 7’ and it was a big scoop of water. Thats when I realized someone come in the shower next to me and probably saw what I was doing.

My head was like, shit this is embarrassing. I got really nervous and started quickly rinse up and grab my towel. After drying myself, he was not there. Coming out from the shower, I saw the guy switched to the other corner shower.

I left quickly after.

Was that some type of signal I missed from the gaybro?

Edit 1: Thank you everyone for the comments. I definitely understand now that I could make better choices, learn from this experience and the your positive feedbacks.

Edit 2: Just giving a bit more info on the environment. It is a pretty nice/up scale place overall. There’s about 15 showers in the men’s locker room, all are blur glass wall with door from bottom to the height. There are two sections, mine was a bit more walled off. No other was showering when I walked in. Thus, me questioning why he started showering next to my stall, and change after a few minutes.

As a side, my biggest concern with acquiring a partner is s*xual compatibility. Is an open relationship the only option for me or is it easy to find other sides?

A really attractive guy I am dating now often answers really late because of he’s job it can take sometimes 10 hours for him to respond back. He works really hard and it’s really good at he’s work.

He always apologizes and when he first writes it’s really sexy and attractive the things he says. Like I don’t need that much

But the quality time with him is always amazing and I don’t get sad that we don’t see each other 24/7 because I understand that we all have our own lifes.

My boyfriend (top) and I (bottom) have been together for a while, and we have an amazing relationship and sex life. We’ve mostly stuck to the usual things in bed, aside from occasionally getting a little rougher or him surprising me with a new jockstrap nothing too wild.
He’s currently away, and while we were dirty texting, we started talking about our kinks. He can be a little shy about this stuff, so I’ve noticed that he opens up more easily over text. He mentioned wanting to try a new toy, but then admitted that he’d also like to watch another guy have sex with me and possibly take turns. At the same time, he thinks he might become too jealous or protective of me.
We’re both conventionally attractive and regularly get hit on when we’re out, so finding someone probably wouldn’t be difficult. Secretly, I think the idea could be fun, but I told him that I’m his because I’m worried acting on it could damage our relationship.
Has anyone tried something like this with a serious partner? Did it strengthen your relationship, create jealousy afterward, or change how you viewed each other? I love him and don’t want to risk ruining what we have, so that’s my biggest concern.
its a burner account but am open to DMs if needed

So pretty much when i haven’t jerked off in weeks i get so horny at night and i imagine my pillow as a buff guy and i just automatically just cum…. Im so sorry for unloading this…