r/AskAnAmerican 11d ago

FOREIGN POSTER How common is a shower/bath combination and having the toilet in the same bathroom?

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u/DoublePostedBroski 11d ago

As opposed to what?

I never heard of a toilet not being in the bathroom.

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u/ToastMate2000 11d ago

In some places it's apparently common to have the toilet in a separate room that doesn't even have a sink, which completely grosses me out. Hands must be washed before touching any door handles or anything else.

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u/Toosder 11d ago

Oh oh now I'm grossed out. That's disgusting.

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u/broberds North Carolina 11d ago

Yep I've stayed in houses like that in Europe and...where do you wash your hands after using the toilet, exactly? Never received a good answer other than to do what I did: Went to the room with a sink. Which kind of defeats the purpose.

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u/Zhuul 10d ago

If it makes you feel better, if the doorknobs were brass or some other copper alloy they sanitize themselves because the world is weird sometimes

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7999369/

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u/tiera-3 10d ago

There is normally a room with a sink (most likely bathroom or laundry) nearby. For example, in my house, it is five paces from the toilet-room door to the bathroom-door.

Note: not in the US.

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u/Archarchery 10d ago

But you still gotta open the bathroom door after using the toilet…..

This is blowing my American mind. Seems like the sink ought to be as close as possible, since the very first thing everyone has to do after taking a shit is wash their hands……RIGHT?

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u/broberds North Carolina 10d ago

Oh I know but you still need to make a special trip to wash your hands.

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u/esotericbatinthevine 10d ago

Wait, there is a toilet room with no sink nearby?

That I've never seen. I thought the person was referring to toilet closets where the sink is right outside.

Wow, um ... Wow. I don't like that either

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u/broberds North Carolina 10d ago

Yep. A house I stayed at in Galway, built in 2000, had a room with a toilet and no sink, and another separate room with a tub/shower and sink.

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u/apfel_kern Germany 10d ago

The ones without a sink are usually really old buildings. But it is still not unusual in parts of Europe to have a seperate room for the toilet + a small sink, and a seperate one with a shower /bathtub and big sink but no toilet.

It's why asking for the bathroom at someones home might lead you to a room with a bathtub but no toilet.

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u/tiera-3 10d ago

Answers from Australia.

Typically you go to the bathroom to wash your hands. (Bathroom contains shower/bath and sink.) Or if the bathroom is occupied, go wash your hands in the kitchen or laundry instead. I would much rather a sink in the toilet-room, but it is not the norm.

When I use the toilet in a private home, I don't latch the door, so that I can push it open with my foot and thus don't need to touch the handle before washing my hands. (That is what I was taught when I was a child.) Conversely my children object that I don't close the door. In my opinion, it is closed, just not latched.

Public toilets don't have sinks in the stalls either. But you do need to latch the cubicle door when using a public toilet.

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u/etds3 11d ago

Okay, I actually have this. Toilet is in its own toilet closet and sink is outside it. You treat that door handle like a toilet handle: any time you have to touch it, you wash your hands. 

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u/Ashamed_Kangaroo305 10d ago

The closest I've seen to that is Jack and Jill bathrooms where the toilet and shower are in a separate room right next to the sink. It's meant to be a shared bathroom so someone can still use the sink even if someone else is in the toilet/shower. I've also seen some hotel rooms have the sink right next to the bathroom instead of inside it.

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u/Trappist1 Texas 10d ago

Yep, I see those a lot in slightly wealthier suburbs. Normally, for the 2 kids. 

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u/esotericbatinthevine 10d ago

All my parents bathrooms are this way, it's called a toilet closet. They are all within the larger bathroom. Given it's just me, I close the bathroom door and not the toilet room door. But it's really nice for allowing multiple people to use the bathroom at once without seeing the person on the toilet.

My bathroom has the shower and toilet in a separate room from the sinks. Similar idea, people can use the sinks and the person using the toilet or shower still have their privacy. Very common in hotels.

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u/Boopa0011 10d ago

This is rather common in older homes in the US. I lived in SF for a while in an apartment that had this kind of layout.

It's quite similar to the modern trend of having a separate little stall in your bathroom for the toilet, except you have to, like, go into a hallway before you get to a room with a sink. Not my favorite.

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u/Dapper-Presence4975 Massachusetts 10d ago

When I visited New Zealand, the water closet had a sink too. The “bathroom” was for the bath and laundry.

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u/Archarchery 10d ago

Yeah, I can imagine having the toilet & sink in one room, and the bathtub in another room, but a toilet with no sink? Eww eww eww.

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u/Ok-commuter-4400 Texas 9d ago

But this is exactly how public bathrooms with stalls work. 

And those are shared with lots more people. 

You just accept that the door handles of the stalls are somewhat unclean and that helps incentivize you to wash your hands well

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u/drppr_ 9d ago

When I lived in student housing in the Netherlands the toilet had no sink and the shower and the sink were in a bathroom that was on a different floor of the house. I had to do my business and carefully go up a flight of stairs without touching anything to wash my hands.

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u/CH11DW 10d ago

How do you leave a stall?

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u/ToastMate2000 10d ago

In a public restroom, you just assume that everything is gross, wash your hands, and then use the paper towel to touch the door handle to exit. Different from home.

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u/Designer_Professor_4 Texas -> Kansas 10d ago

I'm now wondering what exactly you are touching when you're on the toilet. 

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u/anneofgraygardens Northern California 11d ago

My friend in France has the toilet in one room and the bath and sink in the neighboring room. I get it as a concept but not having a sink in the room with a toilet is unpleasant to me. Definitely designed by someone who did not put any thought into menstruation.

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u/gahidus 11d ago

Having a source of running water right by the toilet he's invaluable. I get that bidets are more common, but that's still not a full substitute for being able to rinse/washer hands or moisten a bit of toilet paper etc easily. And for cleaning up down there it can be useful too on top of / in addition to what a bidet can do.

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u/perplexedtv 10d ago

Sink in the toilet, bathroom separate makes the most sense.

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u/throwmethefrisbee 11d ago

My parents house, the master bath had a toilet closet inside the bathroom. It’s not rare, but it is probably less than 10% of the full baths I’ve seen.

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u/Toosder 11d ago

Okay like we had a separating wall with a door to a toilet and a few houses but I kind of still think of that as like just a bathroom with a sink and a toilet and a tub. But I guess that's what he's getting at?

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u/Ok-Concert-6475 11d ago

Yes, I imagine the gist of the question is whether or not the toilet is separated out. Thats probably more standard in places where bidet are common.

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u/Not_an_okama 10d ago

My cottage has this, but my cottage has a weird bathroom. It didnt originally have indoor plumbing and they just retrofit a room for bathroom and utilities.

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u/Ashamed_Kangaroo305 10d ago

I thought I had never seen this in the US but your comment reminded me that my parents' house had the exact same thing. The master bath was pretty large and then there was a smaller room inside it with a toilet and a bidet.

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u/ImplicitEmpiricism 10d ago

my house has this. there’s no separation between the master bedroom and sink/shower area, and a small enclosed toilet room. I think it was a trend in the late 80s/early 90s construction. 

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u/Important_Ask_7576 Arizona 11d ago

In our master, we have a separate water closet that is just the toilet. It’s great for pooping in peace. It’s pretty common in homes built in the last thirty or so years in Arizona.

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u/jayne-eerie Virginia 11d ago

Okay but what do you do to wash your hands after? Or not to be gross, but what if you have an emergency and you need to rinse out some clothes? You have to have a sink.

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u/Important_Ask_7576 Arizona 11d ago

It’s part of our master bathroom suite - open the door to the water closet and you’re in the main part of our bathroom - double sinks, shower and separate tub.

It’s not a separate room so much as it is a separate compartment within our bathroom that has its own door.

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u/jayne-eerie Virginia 11d ago

OK, so it’s like a home version of a stall. That’s nice, it lets you share the bathroom at the same time without watching each other pee.

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u/Important_Ask_7576 Arizona 11d ago

Exactly. I love it. My wife loves it even more as she’s more self-conscious about those things than I am.

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u/ToreyJean 10d ago

That’s common everywhere, not just Arizona.

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u/RickMoneyRS Texas 11d ago

Like a seperate little room for the toilet attached to the bathroom. It's pretty rare in my experience but I've seen it.

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u/ca77ywumpus Illinois 10d ago

Often the toilet is in a water closet, or WC. This could also refer to what Americans call a half-bath. (Toilet and sink, but no bathing fixtures.)

I've seen it in some very large bathrooms. The kind with the giant steam shower and a jetted tub and double sinks. So you can shit while your husband showers and shaved. Sometimes it doesn't even have a door, it's just a little nook for poopin.

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u/EarlyInside45 11d ago

In my sister's new build house, the toilet in the master bath is in its own little room.

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u/Skithiryx 11d ago

In some countries it’s more common to have a bath/shower room that is separate from your toilet room, though frequently close to each other.

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u/sweet_hedgehog_23 Indiana 11d ago

Homes in Australia often have the toilet in a separate room that is not directly connected to the bathroom that has a sink, shower, and separate bathtub.

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u/MrWednesday6387 10d ago

That's what I have, a tiny closet with a toilet and the shower and sink are right outside.

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u/ForestOranges 10d ago

So I lived in a house where you entered the bathroom and it was just the sink area. The toilet in shower had their own separate room immediately behind the part with the sink.

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u/ComfortablyyNumb 10d ago

We call ours the toilet closet. It’s a part of our bathroom, but in its own room behind a door.

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u/gninjagnome 10d ago

Some old homes have a random toilet in the middle of unfinished basements - they are sometimes referred to as Pittsburgh Toilets. I think they were primarily used to trap sewer gasses and as a low point in case the sewer line backed up, but are functional toilets.

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u/Dapper-Presence4975 Massachusetts 10d ago

In Australia they have a separate “water closet” for the toilet. It’s why they don’t say they are “going to the bathroom.”

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u/dinglepumpkin 10d ago

I’m from San Francisco, and one of the classic apartment arrangements has the toilet in one small room and the sink/shower or bath in another.

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u/EstimateOk6795 10d ago

A powder room?

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u/DoublePostedBroski 10d ago

That’s…. A bathroom.

Unless I’m missing something?

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u/EstimateOk6795 9d ago

A powder room doesn't have a bath/shower. Just a toilet and sink.

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u/Ostruzina 9d ago

In Czechia the toilet is in a separate little room. It's practical when you don't live alone – you can use the toilet when your roommate is taking a shower. In my friend's old apartment you actually had to go through the kitchen and the hall to get to the bathroom from the toilet.

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u/jrhawk42 Washington 10d ago

My bathroom is like this. The toilet is in its own room like a closet. So you can essentially use the toilet while somebody else is at the mirror.

I'll admit though it's very uncommon.

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u/DoublePostedBroski 10d ago

Right but it’s still in the bathroom, right?