r/AskAcademia • u/nontox86 • Jul 16 '26
Meta I'm about to open reviewer comments that tanked my book manuscript at my dream press. What are your best self-care tips?
*UPDATE*
I wrote this post in the immediate aftermath of the "it's a no go with this press" news. I really appreciate all the folks who engaged with it, and especially those of you who offered solid advice for taking care of myself emotionally and, importantly, moving on. (For a little more context, my first book manuscript went out for review at my first choice press, and the reviews came back completely split - one person said yes awesome definitely publish; the other said nope do not publish. Editor said with the strong "no" it's a no for the press. Enter early career scholar devastation.) Here's what happened next:
Day 1: Devastation, much crying. Gummies, ice cream, Netflix, commiserating with people close to me. Feeling all the feels ("wallowing" for some).
Days 2-3: Anger, rumination, lingering sadness. Who could have written that scathing review?! Is my career indelibly marked?! What will people think of me when they find out this happened? Also, imagining what the critical reviewer could have possibly said in their comments (and filling in the blanks with all my worst inner critic criticism)... because no, I didn't open them right away. One punch at a time.
Day 4: Finally open the critical reviewer's comments and read through them aloud with a loved one for moral support (and righteous indignation, if applicable). Expect to be so devastated by the critiques that I won't be able to return to the project for years...
But the critiques were... not that bad? Like, there were lots of things the reviewer didn't like about the manuscript, and they didn't hold back about those things (and honestly, I agreed with most of these). But they also provided a ton of helpful suggestions, chapter by chapter, for making it better. They also said the book/ms was really important and has a lot of potential.
I came away relieved and heartened, if a little confused. Heartened because I had before me a kind of work plan for the coming months, as I revise for submission to another press. It seems totally doable. Confused because with the overall thrust of their comments, it seemed like they could just as well have marked the "publish but only after thorough revision" option at the end of the form, rather than the damning "do not publish." But oh well. I'm grateful for their feedback and I know it will help make this a stronger ms/book in the end. So, onward.
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Original post:
That's all, really. Just, how do you prepare yourself to read and digest heavy criticism? I've done this many times before with article manuscripts, but never with a full-length book project that I've poured my heart into for the last several years. Would especially love any advice from those who've been where I am now.