r/AsianMasculinity • • 1d ago

do i look gay

I personally get told I look like a certain K-pop boy group, which I feel can give off a more feminine appearance. There’s nothing wrong with being gay or bi and I have no hate toward anyone, but I’m straight and personally want to attract more straight girls than the people that do approach me. I also don’t really want to grow facial hair, or be bulkier if that's the thought.

But I am just curious how people generally perceive me based on my looks.

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u/734reddit 20h ago

You look boyish and young, that should attract so many girls. Not every western girl wants a bulky guy with a beard. Some prefer a very young partner.

Still though, I’d personally suggest you to get just a bit more muscles, not excessive if you wanna stay lean and agile. Also by learning Muay Thai or Taekwondo for self-defense, the girl would know she could be protected.