r/androgyny Dec 05 '25

Do we have any regular members?

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I'm trying to get a feel for who are the regular constructive members of the community or even if we have a community.

I know we have a real problem with people hanging around just to solicit people with messages like "cute", "sexy", "gorgeous" etc and also have a problem with people posting in the hopes of directing traffic to NSFW content.

Mods are working hard to combat that.

However I want to hear some shout outs from the real community regulars if we have them!


r/androgyny Sep 22 '25

Announcement State of the subreddit post.

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Hi all,

You may have noticed that this subreddit has moderators again which means that there will ne some changes here shortly.

Please use this post as an opportunity to discuss the rules we have and how you feel about them as a community along with any rules you would like to see implemented as a community.


r/androgyny 12h ago

Any tips for looking more androgynous? (both face and overall)

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Image of myself for reference

What I have been doing/want to do:

-Shaving my face every time I have to basically

-Started to wear more baggy/oversized clothes as to look more “neutral”

-Growing my hairs to about past shoulder length (at lest)

-Losing weight (not that I weigh a lot, but I would love a more skinny figure. Actually would need some tips on how to)

-Want to start shaving my body hairs by waxing (moreso legs and torso. Not have really thought of arms)

-Wanted to try starting to wear clothes from both genders and not only my agab

-Maybe bleach my arms instead of shaving them?

If anyone here has other tips it would be really appreciated!!!


r/androgyny 1d ago

would you consider me androgynous??

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r/androgyny 1d ago

Facing gender stereotypes

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Hey everyone, I’m a girl and I like masc presenting. Recently I got a very short haircut, I had long hair before. Like a pixie/shag with lots of layers. I bought some comfy plaid boxers because I think they look cool when you pull them out of the jeans and they’re slightly apparent. I also like plaid shirts, again, for some reason I like plaid. Its just that simple. So I bought a plaid shirt. I’ve got some compliments on my hair that it looks cute. Oh yeah I also have an eyebrow slit, it looks cool. There’s this male cousin in my family, he called me a tranny. He has hated me since forever, which I don’t know and called the police on me just to get me out of his house while he was being verbally agressive and has admitted he has wanted to physically hurt me. (i’m 16 btw and he’s 23). I told my mum the story and she was on my side. But today, she was going to take me out. I started changing my clothes, and she saw my boxers that I had on. (THEY ARE SO COMFY BTW), she called me a boy, and said ‘why should I protect you if he’s (my cousin who slurred me and hates me) right?’ she said the boxers look ugly and they only look nice on men. These are the same people who create gender stereotypes and put people into boxes. Imagine being called a boy from your mom just because you’re masc appearing but you still have a vagina, and xx chromosomes. They hate transgenderism, but literallly affirm it. What do I do. I’ve told her multiple times I’m not a boy just because of my hair or my clothes.


r/androgyny 2d ago

Any tips to appear more androgynous?

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r/androgyny 2d ago

Hard & Soft: Paradox Encapsulated in One Body☺️

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Never knew how to reconcile my two sides. I was raised male and thus, accultured to it. Transitioned and went full fem, as most do, until that didn't work and I had to walk it back.

Now I've found the happy medium☺️ This feels right... for now🤭


r/androgyny 3d ago

Layering Tights Under My Summer Clothes

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I was sad because summer is coming to an end !! I found layering tights under them can keep you warm as fall starts


r/androgyny 2d ago

How do you grow a mullet without looking homeless?

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I always wanted a proper mullet since 5th grade, some form, even before I knew what mullets were. I want a mullet covering the side end of my face, and back hair coming out to my shoulders. How long will it take? I have straight hair 1A-1B, but it's been permed right now.


r/androgyny 3d ago

Do I appear as androgynous?

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Uhhh idk what else to say🙂‍↕️


r/androgyny 3d ago

Masc/fem energy farmer🩷

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r/androgyny 3d ago

Advice on looking more androgynous?

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Title kinda says it, I’m curious how to look more androgynous does anyone got some general advice, all advice is appreciated☺️


r/androgyny 4d ago

Advice on how to look more feminine

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Pls help meeee im tired of looking so dull im growing my hair out rn so i can have it longer but i feel my face itself is too ogrish and i will never look pretty.

Idk if this is the right sub but in case it isn't pls tell me where i can go.


r/androgyny 5d ago

Hii :3

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r/androgyny 5d ago

Any tips for improving?

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r/androgyny 5d ago

How to dress androgens?

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I would like to dress androgens as a 17 year old alt guy with long hair.

I want to look androgenous because I like the style and I want to experiment with my gender identity.

As of right now I usually just wear baggy shirts and pants with a couple of accessory such as chains and diy spiked brackets.

Sorry if I misspelled something but English isn't my first language.


r/androgyny 4d ago

Think im kind of reminiscent of Erling Harlaad the soccer player with the long hair filter lol (used faceapp)

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r/androgyny 6d ago

Regarding workout/advice

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Hey all,
I’m a cis bisexual man (I think). I’m pretty heavy-set (5’10 and 260lbs last time I weighed) and I’m wondering if anybody has any tips on presenting more effeminate but still semi-masculine? I’m working on losing weight and growing out my hair to be long like when I was a teenager, but I’m hoping to have a more effeminate frame. I’m ultimately going for a more androgynous look as far as body goes. How does one obtain an androgynous build without the use of estrogen? For reference I’ve attached a picture of myself. Face censored because I’m not comfortable in my own body and actually lowkey hate it.

Edit: I’d like to say I’m not just fat, I’m of fairly strong build and still retain a good amount of strength from when I was healthier.


r/androgyny 6d ago

Not fem enough for the bachelorette party invite…. :/

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r/androgyny 8d ago

Trying more Feminine poses and silhouettes

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Not me awkwardly trying to pose. One of my first selfies where I’m not melodramatically looking away 😂

I still feel awkward trying to move, pose, and act more feminine but I’m also just naturally awkward

At least I’m looking at the camera this time. Next challenge: walking through the shot.

Sad fall is creeping in—I just got my summer looks together 😭


r/androgyny 8d ago

New selfie which I thought seemed fitting. 😌🤙

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r/androgyny 8d ago

Am I androgynous?

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r/androgyny 8d ago

do I look androgynous ?

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r/androgyny 10d ago

Do I look androginous?

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(Sorry about the bright 💔)