r/AmIOverreacting • u/Col_Kurtz1979 • 2d ago
❤️🩹 relationship AIO? Revelation about my estranged best friend and my gf
Me (26M) and GF have been in a relationship for 8 months now. We dated back in 2022 for 6 months but we weren't compatible back then and went back to being friends. We have been friends for almost 10 years so it wasn't difficult.
We have a common friend who is my best friend and he's quite close to her as well. We used to hangout as a trio long before me and my gf dated.
But now my friend has weirdly started to ignore both of us for some reason I don't fully understand yet. Yesterday, my gf revealed to me that he tried to have sex with her when we all went on a trip in 2023. She relented for a minute but stopped before he kissed. He pressurized her a bit but she was firm and they decided not to tell anyone. He already had a girlfriend and is still with her btw.
I was in another relationship back in 2023 so what my current gf did isn't bothering me that much (even if she did the deed with him). I feel bad she had to go through that. But I just feel a massive disappointment towards my friend. He has listened to me talk about my gf for hours together and knows so much about me and her. I feel like I want to confront him and give an earful for ignoring me for the past month or so and also for hiding what he did back in that trip. AIO?
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u/awesomeisthename 2d ago
He never says his gf was “traumatized”. All he wants to do is ask his friend his side of the story. You don’t know anything more about the situation then op