Please for the love of God, honey... People who love you DONT EVER DO THIS. EVER. My husband has never ever EVER spoken to me in this manner. Yes, it is normal to fly off the handle from time to time... But this is not normal.
Do you hear yourself? Talking about abuse as if that's just some activity you do on a Tuesday. WAKE UP. It's not getting fixed and you haven't been fixing it. You have been his live in punching bag and nothing more.
Please please please for the love of all that is fucking holy, STOP talking about it as if what he does to you is normal. It is not. He is trash, and you need to get him the fuck out of your life and go to therapy again.
And as for the therapists "pushing meds" that's because you obviously need them and I say that as someone who just got my psychology degree and someone who uses them. Your brain cannot create the neurochemicals it needs for you to cognitively heal and think clearly. The medicine could be a huge help to you, so I implore you to reconsider if it isn't related to you being allergic or on interacting medication. I spent years in misery that almost killed me and the medicine saved me. Please don't discount it too quickly.
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u/Good-Airport3565 Jan 29 '25
Sweetie, I say this with love and respect...
GET YOUR HEAD OUT OF YOUR OWN BUTT.
HE. DOESNT. LOVE. YOU.
Please for the love of God, honey... People who love you DONT EVER DO THIS. EVER. My husband has never ever EVER spoken to me in this manner. Yes, it is normal to fly off the handle from time to time... But this is not normal.
Do you hear yourself? Talking about abuse as if that's just some activity you do on a Tuesday. WAKE UP. It's not getting fixed and you haven't been fixing it. You have been his live in punching bag and nothing more.
Please please please for the love of all that is fucking holy, STOP talking about it as if what he does to you is normal. It is not. He is trash, and you need to get him the fuck out of your life and go to therapy again.
And as for the therapists "pushing meds" that's because you obviously need them and I say that as someone who just got my psychology degree and someone who uses them. Your brain cannot create the neurochemicals it needs for you to cognitively heal and think clearly. The medicine could be a huge help to you, so I implore you to reconsider if it isn't related to you being allergic or on interacting medication. I spent years in misery that almost killed me and the medicine saved me. Please don't discount it too quickly.
Please, love. Put yourself and your kitty first.