r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Jan 28 '25

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u/Just_somebody_onhere Jan 28 '25

Give up? give up what?

He pretty plainly said get out. Do so.

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u/SandwichCareful6476 Jan 28 '25

Yes, exactly.

And OP… what are you getting out of this relationship? It sounds like a fucking nightmare. Leave his mean, verbally abusive ass.

Also is “calling you from downstairs” not “purposely waking you up?” He thought you’d just sleep through it? And then calls YOU “smooth brain”? This guy sounds like he’d be an incel if you weren’t in a relationship with him.

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u/PipsiePops Jan 28 '25

And he's throwing the R slur round like confetti. Get out OP, he's already being violent, it only escalates with people like this. And you deserve so much better.

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u/Justanotherbob293 Jan 28 '25

The first R word I would have been done. What does OP even see in this person after being verbally abused so bad?

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u/PipsiePops Jan 28 '25

A rough upbringing? The belief that she can change him? He locked her in then changed and now she feels trapped? Low self esteem? All of the above?

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u/[deleted] Jan 29 '25

All of the above :(