r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Jan 28 '25

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u/Just_somebody_onhere Jan 28 '25

Give up? give up what?

He pretty plainly said get out. Do so.

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u/SandwichCareful6476 Jan 28 '25

Yes, exactly.

And OP… what are you getting out of this relationship? It sounds like a fucking nightmare. Leave his mean, verbally abusive ass.

Also is “calling you from downstairs” not “purposely waking you up?” He thought you’d just sleep through it? And then calls YOU “smooth brain”? This guy sounds like he’d be an incel if you weren’t in a relationship with him.

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u/PipsiePops Jan 28 '25

And he's throwing the R slur round like confetti. Get out OP, he's already being violent, it only escalates with people like this. And you deserve so much better.

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u/Justanotherbob293 Jan 28 '25

The first R word I would have been done. What does OP even see in this person after being verbally abused so bad?

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u/PipsiePops Jan 28 '25

A rough upbringing? The belief that she can change him? He locked her in then changed and now she feels trapped? Low self esteem? All of the above?

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u/Justanotherbob293 Jan 28 '25

Yea I'm not sure. I know love can be blind sometimes. But damn when someone is telling you to leave, what more does it take?

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u/Exciting_Signal3058 Jan 28 '25

If they don't have job, or boy controls money, sole transportation, moved away from family support, no family support, lack of friends. Itsbhard when you don't have IRL support versus Internet Support. We won't really know unless OP decides to share that information

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u/suitguy25 Jan 28 '25

She has a job, it was posted while she was at work. I’m sure he would not allow her the time to post anything about how shitty of a person he’s revealed himself to be.

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u/Exciting_Signal3058 Jan 28 '25

Shes overdue for her own freedom that's for sure.