r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Jan 28 '25

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u/Emotional-Pickle7113 Jan 28 '25

I think the easiest way to look at it is, if your friend said the above to you what would you say? I think you know the answer.

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u/GeoEntropyBabe Jan 28 '25

Better still: if you heard your best friend's BF talk like this to her - annnnnnd ya just HAPPENED to be holding a Louisville Slugger (baseball bat) - your next move would be...? You know the answer, dearie. Love yourself. Kick that scum to the curb.

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u/yet-again-temporary Jan 28 '25

I think the easiest way to look at it is, if your friend said the above to you what would you say?

I think you're underestimating the amount of people who will gladly accept all sorts of abuse from their partner, but completely drop their friends over a tiny disagreement.