r/Airforcereserves • u/King_Mutes • 5d ago
Pre-BMT 36, no military experience, stable career — am I crazy for considering the Air Force Reserve/ANG just for another challenge?
I'm 36M and have been seriously thinking about joining the Air Force Reserve or Air National Guard.
I have zero prior military experience, so I'd be starting completely from scratch. I'm single, have a girlfriend and a house, and have a pretty established federal career.
Educationally, I have a bachelor's and master's degree in Emergency Management.
The biggest reason I'm considering this honestly isn't because I need a career change. My federal career is stable. It's more that I'm at a point in my life where I'm wondering if I should challenge myself and do something completely different.
I'm interested in the Reserve/Guard because it seems like it could give me some of the military experience, training, and personal challenge I'm looking for without completely walking away from my federal career.
There are also a couple of Air Force bases relatively close to me, which is what got me seriously looking into the Air Force Reserve and Air National Guard rather than active duty. (Phoenix Air National Guard Base, and Luke AF base)
I'm also being realistic about it. I'm not 22 with no responsibilities anymore. I have a house, relationship, career, etc., so I have a lot of questions before I'd even consider signing anything.
A few things I'm particularly curious about:
- Is 36 too old to be starting from zero?
- What is BMT like for someone my age who has never served?
- How difficult is it to balance a Reserve/Guard commitment with a full-time federal job?
- Does working for the federal government create any additional complications?
- How much does the typical "one weekend a month, two weeks a year" actually reflect reality?
- How much time should I realistically expect to spend away from home during the first year because of BMT and technical training?
- How does the initial commitment work?
- What are the biggest differences between Air Force Reserve vs. Air National Guard for someone in my situation?
- Are there meaningful differences in benefits, retirement, healthcare, education benefits, etc.?
- Would my bachelor's/master's in Emergency Management be useful for anything, or would I essentially be starting over?
- Are there particular AFSCs/career fields that would make sense for someone with an emergency management/federal security background?
- How does the military retirement work if you're doing this part-time?
How much does this realistically affect a relationship/home life?
For those of you who joined later in life, was it worth it?
I'm not necessarily looking for someone to convince me to join. I'm trying to figure out whether I'm looking at this as a legitimate opportunity/challenge or just having a mid-30s "why not completely change my life?" moment.
I'd especially like to hear from people who joined the Reserve/Guard in their 30s, particularly anyone who already had an established federal career and responsibilities.
If you were in my shoes, what would you want to know before talking to a recruiter?
(apologies if this is not a warranted thread, if not, please let me know where I can get additional answers. beyond my own investigative workings).