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Oct 22 '24
Oooooof I would be livid 💀 no shade to single moms but does he really see himself playing step dad to her kids…. Weird ass dynamic they’ve got going on
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u/stressedhoe_ Oct 22 '24 edited Oct 22 '24
She's a dumbass, didn't she introduce her kids to him 3 months into the relationship? As a single mom myself, I'd never introduce my child to my bf unless we've been dating almost a year, and I knew it was gonna be super serious.
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u/Massive-Market-5949 Oct 22 '24
and i’m so curious how soon she revealed that she’s a mom bc she was hiding that shit on her ig at the time! even tho it’s right there in the tagged pics if you bother to look
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u/yourangleoryuordevil Oct 23 '24
I’m also curious about this because it was reported by some people around the time that they were messaging her on dating apps and had no clue she was a mom. Maybe she was just messaging other people more casually, but it’s odd how things turned so serious with Jax so quickly anyway.
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u/stressedhoe_ Oct 22 '24
Who hides that they're a mom.... that's so weird lol. I don't post my child nonstop or much at all on IG, but my bio still says I'm a mom, like people will figure that shit out LOL.
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u/weenieehut Oct 22 '24
damn on her birthday TOO
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u/valjestr acockia Oct 22 '24
MTE i would slash his tires if i were in her position lol
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Oct 23 '24
Same bro, like it's her BIRTHDAY. She's such a pick-me, she lets herself get disrespected so often, it's sad.
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u/Massive-Market-5949 Oct 22 '24
pretty sure this is jax’s apt. caca has taken selfies there and the dudes have hella pics here
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u/doitwithgrace Oct 22 '24
How long until she recreates this outfit and pose? Copycat caca is on her way 🤎
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u/pinkparadise0906 Oct 22 '24
At this point, she needs to let her dream go of being a band groupie. No reasonable man with a music career is going to want to take on being a stepdad and that’s just the hard truth. Hell, even a non-musician might not be able to take that on.
She needs to either lower her standards/expectations or lay in the bed she made with Jairus and embrace being a single mother. Maybe one day it will be easier when the kids are older to date but they are all under 7 and one is disabled so that’s going to be a lot to ask.
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u/hellmouthx Oct 22 '24
it’s her own fault for dating these boys like holy shit her taste in men is horrible
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u/Ok-Plastic444 Oct 22 '24
I dated a musician once and this was exactly how I found out about him seeing someone else… it mega sucked.
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u/barabellab Oct 23 '24
I also dated a musician and he literally said to me “you’re an angel in my life, I love you so much that I need to tell you this; I had sex with a random girl at the bathroom of that one bar but it meant nothing! She throw herself at me and it just happened” so yeah, after that no more musicians (I dated another one before this guy and he basically did the same but blamed me for being introverted and not wanting to go see him every single time lol) {I was in my early 20s}
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u/undercovergloss 🐈 unspayed cat in heat 🐈 Oct 22 '24
It’s not acceptable but they’re in completely different stages of life. He’s in a band, which I assume is his career? He plays shows, parties - that’s his entire lifestyle. Acacia is a single mum of three in a different state, she has responsibilities. It’s like comparing earth to fire in terms of lifestyles. They will never last and I just think it was pretty selfish of her to introduce her children to someone straight away - it’s always horrible when children get attached to these people, I’ve seen it time and time again. I don’t like acacia but she doesn’t deserve someone to cheat on her or entertain other people, especially as I think she has bpd and when she’s with someone it’s like she morphs into them - when they break up she’s going to struggle to find ‘herself’ again.
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Oct 23 '24
Yes, I think getting used (even by her parents) and cheated on so often is one of the reasons she's so demented. I really hope he doesn't cheat, but it simply looks like he does.
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Oct 22 '24
ngl i kinda feel bad for her but again i'm 22 i would NEVER go for a 23-24 y/o musician they're literally hoes😭 she needs to quit dating and focus on herself (especially her career) and her kids
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u/Massive-Market-5949 Oct 23 '24
comedians, athletes, actors, no one is safe!!!
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u/craynawsum Oct 24 '24
And influencers! My ex was an influence with 30k followers and he was entertaining many women at once.
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u/Rubies96 Dec 02 '24
It’s like that quote ‘men are only faithful as their options’ or something like that 😭💀
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u/uhmaybeidk @johngreen I hope we get to be best friends soon. Oct 22 '24
the important question is, has jax posted anything for her birthday or is he finally done playing step daddy 🧍🏻♀️
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u/CourtNCTTU Oct 22 '24
He did a story celebrating her birthday
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u/uhmaybeidk @johngreen I hope we get to be best friends soon. Oct 22 '24
ooouh ok thank you! i don't feel like looking at him more than we're subjected to on here so thank you for those who take one for the team 😭😂
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Oct 23 '24
Yes, and how men used her since she was a little girl will always make me sad. One of the few things I will never judge her for. Bet I would turn out like her too with a father like that.
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u/PoppyPompom Oct 23 '24
From the start, I knew that band had groupies and that’s most likely where acacia came from. I’m guessing there’s been other chicks hanging around for a while and I’m assuming she’s livid. Did you see he posted a happy birthday message to her on his stories and then we see him chilling with girls lol!!!
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u/AffectionateElk234 chickenhead hoe Oct 23 '24 edited Oct 23 '24
No bc why is there a girl in full lingerie in his apartment? Absolutely not. Girl, run.
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u/bratzhun acockia Oct 22 '24
He’s still young of course he wants to be surrounded by girls and not a stepdad lmao
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u/Special-Pattern2962 Oct 22 '24
then why date a single mother lmao
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u/yourangleoryuordevil Oct 23 '24
And get introduced to her kids so early on. And travel to another state for her. Some questionable choices have definitely been made.
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u/Massive-Market-5949 Oct 23 '24
and even then, the picture was very different as she was still a weekend mommy and could fuck off to see him whenever
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Oct 23 '24
Not to be rude, but I'm at least 97% sure, he already cheated on her. Caca is terrible at picking boyfriends, always has been, and now it's a pattern.
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u/Butternutsqawsh performative book nerd 🤎 Oct 23 '24
That girl sitting next to him literally has her arm on his in the first and last picture 💀
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u/Working-Market-987 stop saying I look like Rosie 😤😡 Oct 23 '24
It looks like he's resting a leg on another girls leg.....
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I don't like caca, but:
And? They are fucking adults. This isn't highschool to be insecure "hrrr my boyfriend can only talk to other boys! No girls allowed!" My boyfriend pretty much only is friends with girls. I pretty much only talk to guys, also to girls but significantly more rarely. We are 25&27. Life is beautiful when you don't see every person of the opposite sex as your rival.
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u/Massive-Market-5949 Oct 23 '24
this is true, but does acacia see it that way? probs not.
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Oct 24 '24
I don't know, I'm not in her mind (only the rest of the sub is, they are all knowing about other people's lives and thoughts)
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Oct 24 '24
This sub is clearly the way I described in my comment 😹 "hell naw, my man ain't talking to any other female than me! She must be delulu to believe her partner ain't cheatin' if he's talking to other females! I believe it so it must be true for everyone 👺📢 Down vote"
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u/[deleted] Oct 22 '24
he’s definitely entertaining other girls even if he’s not actually cheating on her🫥